I told him I wasn't ready for sex. He responded with "lets find out"....
Lets rewind. Earlier that day we had a great day, and everything was going well. We have been dating for almost 3 months. However, we go to his home after the date. I've been in his home before, so i felt comfortable. We started kissing, and he was fingering me. Then he wanted to have sex. I responded with "I don't think im ready for that," then he said, "well lets find out.".. After that I froze up... I had attraction towards him, but did not want sex due to personal reasons. I ended up letting it happen, and i felt horrible afterwards and even cried. He was very understanding and apologetic after. But now I don't feel fully safe with him because what if he crosses another boundary? I'm not saying that he's a monster because my body language may have told him I wanted sex, but i verbally told him I was not ready ....