u/Key-Expression-9145

Would you like the person again if she rejected you first time then she found feelings to you after few years?
Or one rejection is enough and it’s good to just remain friends.

I will be traveling alone from Glasgow to London and will be staying in onefam notting hill hostel in London in the first week of May. Has anyone stayed in here before and what can expect. What sort of activities they offer. Also how is the shared facilities in the hostel?

So I have a crush on this girl and we already made plans we are meeting in London,UK. However, she hasn’t replied to my txt for a month now. I waited and waited and the meet up is next week which is on the week of our birthday. I was wondering is it worth pursuing her? I respect her privacy and space but it’s starting to feel rude knowing that I can see that she’s online.

Im not rushing her to reply but at least I could get heads up or something. My fear is that I went to London and she still hasn’t replied knowing we made plans. I also invited her for a lunch date on my birthday so Im just overthinking, am I getting ghosted and stood up? I spend money already for train and hostel to stay.

Im already telling myself Oh ill just still go even we haven’t met since I still have friends there and its my birthday. But it would hurt me very much because she might not reply till the day I arrived