Hello people, I'm a BA with 5+ YOE, though my experience hasn't been focused on a particular industry yet. I'm now looking to transition into a BA with the Banking & Payments industry.
Please suggest reliable and useful sources from which I can get paid training to gain this domain knowledge, along with domain interview prep.
Hello people, I'm a BA with 5+ YOE, though my experience hasn't been focused on a particular industry yet. I'm now looking to transition into a BA with the Banking & Payments industry.
Please suggest reliable and useful sources from which I can get paid training to gain this domain knowledge, along with domain interview prep.
My wife and I are working professionals, married for 2 years through an arranged setup, no kids yet. She’s a great person and an amazing emotional partner. We have love, respect, shared responsibilities, hugs and cuddles embedded in the relationship.
The issue is our sex drive mismatch. Mine is very high, hers is very low. We do have physical intimacy, but the frequency is very low. If I don’t initiate or push for it, she can go weeks or even a month without it. She simply doesn't feel the need or drive to do it that often, while I would want to do it regularly. And even when we do it, it comes only after constant pushing and getting rejected first. It simply kills the desire, and it feels like a formality. It's not like we don't spend quality time together. We go on trips, dinner dates, movies, we buy each other gifts and are very emotionally attached- just that her desire to have physical intimacy is very low.
Once in a blue moon, she herself initiates and participates actively. It's just that such a thing happens very rarely, like once in a few months. Rest all the time; she’s just following me with no proactive participation.
I have been managing this for two years, but now it's getting frustrating for me. It also makes me scared of post-child life. Seeing her currently low sexual desire, I think she may even stop wanting it completely after having a child. People say communication between couples helps, but I don’t see how just talking can create genuine sexual desire if it’s not there now. Even if frequency improves, it may just feel like she's fulfilling a duty from her side rather than a genuinely improved desire.
For the married people who’ve faced this, how did you handle it?