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So general background: I've (26m) been seeing someone (26f) I'm very interested in for about 3 weeks now. We've had several very solid dates and definitely kissed a bunch on the last one. She made it clear while kissing that she didn't want to have sex atm, which is totally cool (it's only been a few dates after all).
She does come from a pretty religious background, and while she isn't active in it, she does retain some things from it (i.e. she mentioned she isn't planning on living with some before marriage when I mentioned I thought that would be pretty important for determining compatability). This is where my concern comes from. Normally, I wouldn't be worrying about it this early.
I'm of the belief that sexual compatibility is essential for a successful long term relationship/marriage, and I would not be willing to commit to marriage without knowing how the sex is with my partner.
I'm trying to find a good way to broach the subject without it feeling like I'm trying to push her for sex before she's ready, but it's something I want to be clear on since it is a deal breaker for me. So if any of yall have any good advice for me, I'd love to hear it!