u/Kenzie484

Should I feel guilty for making my son (19) in college work?
My son goes to college full-time and works part-time. He has to do a lot of extracurriculars related to school so he doesn't have a lot of time to work so my husband and I give him money very frequently on top of paying his car insurance, his phone bill, for doctors appointments, for medication, and usually gas. He told me that none of his friends have to work while they're in school and gives me an attitude every time I ask him to do anything around the house. If l ask him to feed our dogs, clean his bathroom or empty the dishwasher, etc he'll ask me, "are you not home"? I honestly don't know if I'm in the wrong or not. He works hard at school, gets great grades and goes to work when they actually schedule him. Am I asking too much of him?