u/Kennam320

Can we talk about Caregiver shaming for a minute? I see a lot of people posting on here about outsiders who are not boots on the grounds, giving their opinions, comments, etc. I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t even get mad at it anymore because I need to protect myself and my family from external judgment we and only we know what we go through every day and external comments need to be taken with a grain of salt to the best of our ability because they just don’t know any better. Saying that and living that are obviously two different things as you all know I believe it’s just natural human nature to want to help in a certain way and people giving their opinion is their way of helping at the end of the day. It’s only me my husband and our child who know how hard it is on all of us and we need to bond together and not turn on each other.