Threesome Advice
I (23NB/AFAB) and my (24NB/AMAB) spouse have been talking about having a threesome and needed some advice (obviously).
Here is some context: We have been together for 7 years and have found that we are both attracted to men and women and since we've been together so long we are obviously curious about other people.
I am also on the demisexual spectrum meaning I don't find people sexually attractive until their is an emotional connection.
On to the advice section:
My question is when you have a friend and develop these attractions to them and want to ask for a threesome how do you ask that individual that you want to invite them into your marriage?
More context: I also know me and my spouse are very young to be married and this isnt a marriage ruiner for us. We simply want to experience the same gender we were both assigned at birth with. This is also not an issue because seeing our partners with the same genders is very attractive for both of us. Please keep comments like that to a minimum.