I want to protect my family from my MIL. She has abused my husband since childhood and her legacy carries even without her presence.
She has always hated me—partly because I'm a "witch" and she is a "Christian", but imho, it's because I force her to reconcile with reality. She has done awful things in effort to split up my husband and me. The wounds haven't healed, and as much as I don't want to admit it; I ruminate on them daily and they keep me up at night.
She visited last summer, and ended up having to be kicked out of our home due to her violent behavior. As soon as she rode away in her Uber, I cleaned every spot she had been in; washed the sheets, scrubbed the shower, cleaned the drain, wiped down surfaces, swept and vacuumed. I wanted to cleanse her from our souls.
The rage I was feeling was prickled by bloodthirsty excitement when I found her hair in the trash can. I plucked it out and stored it in a box. I didn't act on my intense emotion because I didn't want it to color the outcome of my spell.
She was excommunicated since that visit—no phone calls, texts, etc. from us, but she is beginning to wheedle her way back in to our lives. She is using his ex, our daughter, and past events to stir up drama in effort to split us up... again. She wants to be in his life and our daughter's life, and she wants to have control again. Always manipulating; she is the queen of gossip in the small town where he was raised.
Our daughter just got a text from her saying that she is coming (across the states) to see our daughter off to her first formal, and that she is going to buy her shoes.
I have spent a whole year with this box of hair. It's time.
I would love some advice on the spell and some creative input.
Despite the things she did and does to my husband, and to me, I have tried everything to be good to her. I have always been kind. My priority is to give my husband what he needs. I don't want him to not have a mom in his life, but the abuse has to stop.
I do not mean her harm, though I know if I am successful, she will live out the end of her life in loneliness.
I am compelled to bind her hair with something and set then set it on fire. The idea is to wrap it with the energy that her hungry ghost needs and then transform it like a Phoenix. I want to banish her and send her (and her parents') energy packing. I have had great results with freezing spells. I want to write her name on a paper and keep it in the freezer. I want to protect us from her coming back to us physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I want to free us from her in entirety.
I want to cut out all the harm that she has done to our souls. I want to detach that part of the familial legacy like ripping off a leech, or cutting out cancer, or cutting off a dead branch.
Thank you for listening and for any insight you can offer.