Like the title says, I found out my partner secretly watches porn while we game together and are on discord. And yes we live together, but our PCs are in separate rooms. I knew he watched it normally or when I was not home, but found out he does that and also when I am in the shower, etc. I also found some live chat cam’s but he says it was just ads and he didn’t actually go to them, idk. Is that possible or do you need to click on them for the girls names to show up? Is it addiction? Why would he need to look at porn while I am 10 feet away from him, on Discord talking to him and playing video games with him?
We’ve already been through a lot of phases where I felt I wasn’t enough, but we were younger (21/25) and it was a lot of insecurity. He acts overly in love with me, and our sex life is great, and actually we are engaged. Our sex definitely less frequent recently but at least 1-2x a week and it is always amazing, so I’m not understanding why he’s doing this. We’ve talked before about how porn is an addiction and I don’t want someone addicted, and how chat cams / only fans to me is cheating.
Yes, I did ask, and he said he didn’t have an answer to give as to why he does it. Is this something normal, I’m finding myself real hurt that he’s on the phone with me and looking at other naked women, and that he’d rather secretly watch porn when I’m in the shower than ask me for sex, which I wouldn’t really ever say no too unless we have somewhere to go. And if he is lying about the chat cams and continued to use them that would be a deal breaker for me. So any other men/women that have experienced this please let me know your experience and what ended up happening.