Lets start with saying during this time I was 20F and my friend well call her “Kelly” she was 26F. We became good friends while working in childcare together, this was my first legitimate job, my MIL was the director at the time, so a lot of people in the building seen “favoritism”. I didn’t think so just cause I really didn’t like working with my MIL, because she expected so much from me. Anyways, me and Kelly ended up getting SUPER close while working together. There was three different people in our classroom (which meant 3 different schedules) Kelly’s schedule was the earliest she had to be at work right at 7am, my shift I came in by 7:45, and the last girl came in around 12 i think 🤔 can’t remember this was 2019. I lived the furthest from the daycare my drive was about 35-40min depending on traffic. Kelly lived 8min away and I’m not sure about the 3rd teacher (we weren’t close at all) but Kellys lunch break was 30min, i had the split shift so I had a 2.5hr break, we decided like hey you live further so why not switch our schedules every week. So one week I’d get off at 3 and the next she’d get off at 3. We were a center that had volunteers come in — these girls couldn’t be left in the classrooms alone due to disabilities such as being deaf, blind, etc. but to give them the opportunity to learn. I loved the inclusion, but Kelly— did NOT! I was on the early shift. Not to mention I wake up a little earlier during the week I had that shift and would get to the center about 15min early just so I wasn’t late. Kelly was the classroom trainer, and she had the 2nd shift, which meant she’d be there till 5:45-- and had to train one of the volunteer girls. Well… she came in and MIL let her know like hey we have the volunteers here today, we need you to show her this this and this. Let’s just say she was NOT happy about this, she came in the classroom and I could feel her vibe a mile away. She asked me if we could trade shifts, and I was like mmm… absolutely not i dont think the office would like that either because I’d be going over my hours for the day. She WALKED OUT OF THE ROOM. If you know daycares then you know that we have a teacher to child ratio and the volunteer was not eligibile to be considered in that ratio. So she quit. I was like okay… well maybe she’ll cool off. I had introduced her to my fiancés best friend a while before this incident, but she said she wasn’t really interested in him. At The Time I guess. We ended up going to my fiancés friends house and low and behold.. guess who moved in with him. Yeah you guessed it Kelly. We all hung out she didn’t say much to me besides I was a sh** friend for not quitting with her. I brushed it off but as soon as I left she told my fiances friend that she didn’t mind my fiancé coming over but she wanted no part of me and didn’t want me there. Chill cool okay. My fiancé goes to hang out with them and when we did Hang out she told me a story of her changing a boys number to her cousins name and her Ex had no idea about it… she told my fiancé that story but said that I was doing that to him.. I was like mmm okay, my fiancé was like idk she seems controlling, well my fiancés friend ended up kicking her out because she used all his savings for new furniture and stuff so she ended up moving back to Louisiana. I went to look at her FB just cause I thought about her a lot and wanted to see how she was doing… I saw “In Remembrance of ..” I felt so bad about the outcome of our friendship and to not get closure or for us to come back together hit me hard… I feel like the AH for how our friendship went… Am I? (Sorry for the super long post)