My soon to be Ex-Wife wanted to break up and left our house 3 weeks ago. She seemed very conflicted at first, but always came back to wanting a divorce. I have been completely willing to do what she needs and offered ways to try and save our marriage but she isn’t interested.
Obviously, we need to communicate things about how to continue to separate and although most of her belongings are gone, there are still some more items and legal issues we need to take care of.
To that end, she was texting me yesterday and I asked if we could call instead, as it would be easier. I gave her an early evening time and she agreed.
I called and I was trying to keep the conversation brief, and about 2 minutes in, I hear the unmistakable sound of bed springs in rhythm. I noted in and let it go on for about 30 seconds until I asked her what the noise I could hear was. The moment I asked her, it stopped. She said she was just standing, talking to me and had “no idea” what it could be.
If you’ve ever stayed in a hotel, or had neighbors who like a good time, you know exactly what that sound is. There’s nothing else that really sounds like it, and given that it stopped the moment I brought it up to her, and she offered no explanation at all, makes me think she was having sex with someone while talking to me.
Part of me feels like I might just be going nuts, but it was so apparent what that sound was. The other part of me feels like that’s the most crazy disrespectful thing you could do to someone who’s being very agreeable in a divorce they didn’t want.
I have to see her tomorrow and I want to bring it up, but I know she wouldn’t tell me the truth anyway.
What would you do?