u/Justathrowaway995

Yes, our one year anniversary was yesterday and he didn’t get me anything. He also didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day. For my birthday he got the diamond put back into my ring 6 months after it had fallen out (I found out 2 weeks later that was a free service) and for Christmas he got me a weed pen. He also spent 6 hours of Christmas Day with his family, who has been nothing but unkind to me since we met. He knows that gift giving is my primary love language. We have had two “come to Jesus” talks about how he’s let me down with the gifts and he cried and through ash on himself (figuratively). But here we are. Again. For the record I am probably the best gift giver ever- a blessing and a curse- so I know my standards can be higher than they should be sometimes, but I feel like my anger is still reasonable. I guess I’m looking for advice on a next step. Boundaries to place? Idk honestly.

TLDR: Husband hasn’t gotten me a real present in years and our one year anniversary is my breaking point.

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u/Justathrowaway995 — 9 days ago