So I think I already know the answer to this question but I just wanna get confirmation-so about a year ago I was on a dating app. It was like Facebook dating or something. I mail 18 at the time I’m 20 now. I met this other guy 18 and we started talking. He was really nice and I was like OK so this is going well and we plan to meet up. And that was kind of the end of the first day just conversation. But the second day he started talking and he was feeling down. Apparently he was with somebody and they were fighting a bunch and he kept wanting to leave because all the signs were there that his boyfriend was cheating on him and abusing him emotionally before he downloaded the app I guess. After a few days of trying to help him out, he ended up breaking up with him and we stayed friends for a while. i’m asking something about us getting together. I told him it literally just happened for a few days ago. It would make sense just to be friends for right now cause after helping him with that and seeing what he went through I don’t think he should be ready so soon and I’m not ready, he said he was fine with that and we went on, but then the next day he just straight up, said I loved you and started going off the deep end saying how he can’t wait to see me and be with me and asking him if he can move in. So I told him no we’re not together nor did I agree that we were. He cannot move in with me and after about an argument for an hour, we agreed staying Friends was OK. Well, cut to the next day and he does the exact same thing again and gets worse and worse. I kept trying to give him signs to stop, but no matter what I did it just kept getting worse to the point where he was stalking me so I just told him no and I don’t wanna see him anymore or talk to him and I cut contact completely and he’s been stalking me and trying to get in contact throughout the entirety of last year, all the way up until now. So I went off on him and told him I don’t wanna see him anymore. He’s crazy. I don’t wanna deal with him. I gave him a bunch of chances and he broke them all and will not stop. Pestering me so I blocked him on everything. I made my own guidelines clear that I don’t wanna be in a relationship after what happened between him and his ex (past trauma I I don’t feel like going over) and I don’t think he’s ready so we should just stay friends)
Sorry that grammar is bad. I’m using speak to text. I got my wisdom teeth. Removed to my pain. Reliever pills are making me a little bit. Sleepy so typing hard.