What did you guys do when it came to having visitors after having your twins?
With our first, no one could come to the hospital (covid). When we got home everyone came at least once in the first month and mil was there like once a week or more (which was awful because she is the worst boundary crosser and I always need to prepare myself mentally for visits as is).
I'm getting nervous thinking about having visitors but I also don't want to push any support away.
Did you guys have visitors at the hospital?
Did you wait until you got home to have visitors?
Did you set limits of when people could visit? Or how many times they could visit...? 😬
We will have people wash their hands, no kissing (mil trampled that boundary the first time around right after I told her we weren't allowing any kissing so I figure that will be an issue), and of course if your sick then wait until your well to come meet the babes. I think having these boundaries (if they are respected) will help me feel a bit more relaxed having company. Either way though 😵💫