My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago
Hi. I’m just wondering how I can get over my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me on Tuesday and I have been feeling so down and scared he cheated or that he’s moved on. We got into a tiny argument, it was barely an argument though. He got mad at me for saying I had already seen something he sent me. Then said he lost feelings for me and our relationship didn’t feel right. I was so confused and upset because it caught me so offguard and we just stopped speaking. Later on Tuesday night, I texted him I missed him but he left me on delivered. Until Wednesday night, he sent me this:
I saw your message and I just wanna give you closure because I don’t wanna be unfair to you. You’re a nice, sweet, pretty girl I wish I could give you the love you deserve but I don’t think I’m the one. I know you’ll find someone better. There is nothing wrong with you, but rather than the things around our relationship wasn’t what I wanted or needed. I think theres a lot of things between us and that’s why I lost feelings. Either way I did enjoy the time we had and you were the first person I decided to date after a while. Move on for me don’t be sad or upset.
How could i not be upset? It feels like he had been waiting for this moment to happen just to break things off. We couldn’t hangout due to personal reasons but seriously I’m so upset and don’t understand why he would do this. On Friday, he texted me again and asked when he could get his hoodie back and it hit me all over again. I just want to feel his love again and talk to him. I miss him every day and this feeling won’t go away. I feel like a part of me is missing without him. If someone could pls give me advice I would really appreciate it.