u/Jazzlike-Cow-8943

Hi Ladies, please forgive me if this has been posted before.

I found out my husband has been terribly misusing martial funds. Like, $200-300/week on himself including cheating on me. For years.

He’s the Apple Family Organizer. How can I download apps on my phone and/or make purchases without him knowing? In my state all debt is split 50/50 unless you can prove otherwise. I was thinking about getting Monarch or CoPilot to help me sift through all the transactions and send it to a lawyer…but I don’t want him to find out.

Any (non-legal of course) advice is deeply appreciated