I NEED HELP DECODING THIS BEHAVIOR… Mine too please because I’m scared okay!? 😓
Backstory: Me (25M) and C(26F) part of the same friend group of 5 people. I think she knows I liked her back then. Anyway to the present.. I can’t tell if this girl really wants to be with me or not. But of course fellas when we get emotions involved we get stupid.
We took a trip to New York together with her cousin B (F32). They ended up staying at a hotel 12 minutes away from mine 🤦🏾♂️. The night before her flight she texted me around midnight “When do you wanna do business 👀 “.. my dumba$$ said tomorrow but again how was I gonna make this work. Her cousin ended up staying. Earlier on the trip a friend picked me up and it was a late night I fell asleep. The next morning C FaceTimes me and asks “did you sleep with her” before I could answer she blew up on me and said “it took you too long to answer yes you did!”
Anyway… nothing happened on that trip… attraction was built though.Social media. She started liking my instagram stories. They are usually selfies of me or boomerang pics of my outfits. Additionally she sent me a TikTok about dating a girl in healthcare. She sends me TikTok’s all the time now. And funny dog pictures. (I love dogs). She even sent a NY TikTok and said “Let’s go back” soooo like with or without your cousin? 👀
We went to see the Michael Jackson movie last night. Great movie. We laughed a ton! It was fun. She didn’t tell me she had to work a double shift from 10-11AM that same night so I’m guessing the fact she did that makes it clear she wanted to spend time with me???
She knows about my last relationship. Very toxic and I ended up getting arrested for a weekend and my tires got slashed 😓. Never been in trouble before.. she said she cried about me and she “didn’t even know she liked me”.. but she was still with another guy at the time so it confused me…
So remember that friend group? Well A(F26) is her best friend and also my best fiend 😭. She told me she always knows there was a little something going on. But she told me there was a guy named A(24M) she talked to and they went to the movies too. He got them a room and C said “A room for what!???”. So mission failed on his end lol. Not only that.. she had to check him because he kept going around telling people look who I’m talking to. She’s really really private so this guy is killing the vibe. My only issue is she did bring him up while we were on FaceTime one time and she was like. It took me a long time to even warm up to A.. he’s sweet but mmmm 🫤” literally her words and facial expression.
Gents and Ladies help me out. I wanted to make a move at the theater but between her retaking the NCLEX Nursing test and us sitting right beside a whole family with babies I figured let’s just have a good time! My biggest thing is I don’t wanna wait too long and miss the opportunity. Maybe I should just say it and be direct.