A few years ago I had a health scare and during it my ex-husband left me, which I later learned is actually not uncommon. After I got better, I did not take him back, but I was left to feel sad, angry, and unattractive. I sought out casual companionship to feel better and curb the loneliness and I ended up genuinely falling in love with my newfound single life and the casual sex that came with it. I had only ever had 2 partners my entire life, and this was brand new and so exciting.
As I explored with more partners and was introduced to more sexual variety, I found a couple of more regular partners who introduced me to the more rough/BDSM side of sex which I also found myself loving due to the physical and emotional intensity of that sort of play. And as I’ve explored that side of myself and that community more, a partner has recently introduced me to group play. A couple months ago I attended my first group party and I have since been to 2 more!
I am honestly shocked where life has taken me the past few years. I lived a nice, although fairly boring, life prior to this. Now being single, I have really embraced living a sexual lifestyle and I am a very different person from who I was just a few years ago. I would love to chat with like minded people or anyone who’s gone through a similar life transition that they did not expect!