Hi all. Basically what the title says. I (F22) have been dating my boyfriend (M22) for what will be 3 years next month now. At the first 2 years we have been sex freaks but then the past few months I just barely feel horny anymore. We havent done any penetration in maybe 2 months, but ill still jerk him off occasionally. I dont know what my issue is. Am I falling out of love with him or something? Its becoming a serious issue that he brought it up with me and im sad I cant feel horny anymore. I tried reading some smut and it doesnt really do much. I just wish there was some sort of low effort fix like a supplement or something. Its gotten to the point where, genuinely, he talked about breaking up with me. I was discussing this with my therapist, but she focuses more on mental health than sex, so she wasnt really able to say much. I am very attracted to my boyfriend. He is absolutely wonderful to me and I wouldnt want anyone else. I feel like im broken or something, like a female with erectile dysfunction (idk what you call it in women). I just don't have the desire to masturbate or have sex. Like I feel like i could go the rest of my life without it. It was always something so important to me to do but now im just like meh. Please help me because it seems to be destroying my relationship. Thanks.
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u/JaneDoeWasTaken-2 — 17 days ago