u/JanJan_7656

I'm confused, need some insight

So I've never had any problem with my gender. The way I dressed and acted always mostly fit my assigned gender.

But recently I noticed that I don't like being called a girl or a woman. Or even sister or daughter. I'm not sure how to explain how I feel, but it just bothers me to be put into a box. I may seem like I fit that box perfectly, but I still don't want others to view me that way.

I like my "feminine" features, dresses and accessories, and so on, but it just makes me uncomfortable that people reduce me to how I look. I want people to view me as a person and not as one specific gender.

Now I'm not quite sure if that means I'm agender. Cause it also kinda seems like I have a problem with being a woman because of some internalized misogyny? It's weird cause that is not at all how I was raised. I've never experienced misogyny. Not until I've spent more time on the internet, at least.

Maybe I'm just overthinking it, but I'd feel horrible to label myself as agender if my feelings really do stem from some internalized misogyny.

But then again, it feels like the agender label may fit me pretty well.

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u/JanJan_7656 — 8 hours ago

The fact that marinette will be the temporary wielder of the fox miraculous. The one about lying and deception... You can't tell me that the writers didn't do that on purpose. And I love it, lol.

I wonder if there's also a hidden meaning behind Adrien having the turtle miraculous

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u/JanJan_7656 — 17 days ago