I built up the courage to make this post so please be nice I’m 16 years old and wanted to ask everybody here does this sound like a parent who has narcissistic disorder (if I have bad grammar and punctuation, I'm sorry I'm not good at writing)
Storytelling: My mom storytells a lot for example, when I was 8 years old a teacher took my snack at school I told my mom about it, later on in the day she retold the story TO ME and she changed the story and told me the story as if she was there and she defended me from the teacher that took my snack away. When I said that story isn't true and that she wasn't there she told me she was there and I just didn't remember. And when I insist she wasn’t there she got madder and started calling me names. I can also be talking to her about what happened to me that day and she would interrupt me to tell a story that she already told before if I told her she already told this story she would still tell the story anyways and I would not be able to tell her what happened to me.
Victim:I have so many stories of my mom acting like a victim.but one time when I was 13 I was diagnosed with depression and when my mom found out I was diagnosed with depression 2 months later she made an appointment to see if she had depression onc she found out she had depression she started telling me that her depression is worser than mine and She started to wake me up crying IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT to tell me how she needed a hug this happened multiple times
Abandonment: This is also a story from when I was younger but when I was five she was talking to my brother and me about how she doesn't want to be a parent anymore because we don't listen to her a couple of days later she told us to get ready because we're going to the movie theaters she took us to a building and dropped us off and told us to stay there and she walked about 3 BLOCKS we had to run after her. (I have to say she only did this to us once)
• This is little random stuff she has done woke me up out of my sleep and rushed me to pack bags and then changed her mind and told me we're not going anywhere and I can go back to sleep.
•woke me up out of my sleep on a school night and kept me up for hours to rant about her problems
•come into a room where I’m minding my business to tell me that I’m lazy and that there's something mentally wrong with me
•told her things she has done to me that I don’t like and then to act like a victim she tells me that that’s why I tried to bring you to CPS when you were younger cause I felt like I wasn’t a good parent or she would tell me well if you think I’m such a bad parent than you can get out of my house.
•used to kick me out of the apartment when we were younger if we was playing in the house to loud would kick us out the apartment with no shoes on (she would only kick us out for 2 minutes)