u/Jaamuboi

Male 30 ,Found out my father 70 has been cheating with women mother also found out

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Today i found out that my father has been cheating with other women throughout his life. I feel confused and traumatized.

My father is a reputed man in our town respected both in the community and in house but today my reality is distorted as my brother found an audio recording of him and other women having sex.

He has been a good father to us but my reality is distorted now about the world and about relationships.

My mother is an innocent woman who is also respected in the community but now she is old and totally stressed out she doesn't have any siblings close in the house. Me and my brother are also struggling in our careers for years now but this moment has come to a shock to us.

I suspected an affair of my father 4 months back today

The truth was completely revealed.

I am distorted and stressed that my mother had found the affair earlier today my brother found out.

I have been stressed out because of a failing career for years now this has shook me from the core.

I don't know what to do now.

I feel crazy

What should I tell my father now he is a good father but idk who he really is..?

My mother seems strong but is broken inside ..

What should I do now ?

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u/Jaamuboi — 1 day ago