AITJ I told my brother to either start using protection or hire a nanny becase I am tired of raising his and his wife's many children. They are wealthy but keeps relying on me while they hate each other?
My brother 42M and his wife 40F are terrible to each other. They put kniffes to each other's throats, slap each other, throw plates at each other. He is very successful, the director of a huge company and she also works there but in a non leading position, she has not subordiantes. At work they pretend to be the nicest couple. She behaves submisiv and smiles and him all the time, the hold hands, but at home they fight, physically, he put his hands on her thr0at, she scratched him, trashed his car while he was at the gym.
They have 2 kids and now they let everyone know with happy faces that they are going to have another baby boy. Like why?? Really. They have separate bedrooms in the house, separate bathrooms and they obviously hate each other. At the same time, when they did separate for a while neither he, nor her could be happy with anyone else although they both dated for a while.
I am divorced and childless and I love these kids, but I have my own life to live and taking them over to my place every other night because they do god knows what to each other it's tiring. But these kids also love me and tbh both their parents love them and are good to them. They are only this way to each other. Once a neighbour called the cops but they started defending each other.
So another baby, this will be a third one, why are they even keep having them and how...
I told my brother, he makes tons of money, way more than me. To just hire a nanny or use protection. and now neither speaks to me
TL;DR: I told my brother I wil not be babysitting his children anymore because he and his wife cannot act like adults