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so i had sex for the first time in my life 11 days ago and 4-5 days ago i noticed bumps in my genitals, thought they were razor bumps, maybe they really were but i later noticed small blisters which turn into scars. it hurts when i pee and i also cant walk properly because it stings. i also have unusual discharge. one week ago i had a terrible headache and was feverish. my bf said his brother and him had a "scabies" history and the bed we slept in "could be" dirty due to his brother bringing every guy/girl to that bed. i thought i got genital herpes from him, thinking one of his exes gave it to him, but today he went to a dermatologist and his doctor said "it doesnt seem like herpes, you just got scabies again." he has no active symptoms neither for herpes nor scabies. im also not itchy, i got small scars on my body but they always happen to me so i dont mind. im not itchy, it just hurts when i pee and i got scars all over my genitals which stings when i walk and i have unusual discharge. i also went to a dermatologist and bcs im not 18 yet so she couldnt do a full examination but said "it might not be herpes" and nothing else. i dont know what to do the pain is unbearable and my mom doesnt accept to take me to a doc. im using aclovir cream but it doesnt help at all.