u/InvestigatorOk2588

Hey beautiful girls! I’m 25 and I just feel as if I do not have a backbone. I’m used to just ignoring people, but sometimes if I’m ignore them and their behavior in the moment, it backfires on me because I’m suppressing it. How can I clap back without feeling as if I’m being mean?

People at work are shady and all I can do is roll my eyes at it, but sometimes it gets to a point. I dealt with so much at my past job that I just feel defenseless. My parents passed when I was younger and I was sheltered as an adult, grew up with family fighting etc etc.

But yeah, I just feel as if I don’t have a voice. Any suggestions?

(I know I also should love on myself and shouldn’t put anyone above me, regardless of their title…but yeah. Advice please?)

Hey yall so I met this guy. He seemed pretty cool at first, but now it’s giving…controlling. Like he feels as if he can talk to me any kind of way and is pushing me to get tested so I can have unprotected sex with him. He was all sweet earlier, but when I had said how he made me feel without having my number saved in his phone, he went cold. Yes, I’m a libra woman and he’s a libra man.

Is this normal? I’m lowkey emotional about it. We already had protected sex and he did try to ask to take it off repeatedly. I said no…but like I feel pressured guys.