u/Intrepid_Pop_2947

first of all my English isn’t the best it’s not my first language I’m sorry. so basically I’m constantly scared of him leaving me after any kind of fight. so the usual fight happens cause im overwhelmed with chores and then snap at him. the problem is that I want him to help but at the some time I want to do it myself cause he is not doing it properly. after every fight he doesn’t talk to me and i need to try to keep the peace cause i love him and im incredibly scared of losing him. I somehow worry that i dont notice how annoying im actually am cause of my adhd and ocd. I worry that i burden him and ant some point he just leaves. on top of it hes currently writing his master thesis whivh means we don’t really had time for nice things for like the last 5 months. what should i do ? AITAH for snapping an not just shutting up and be easy during this time?