u/IntrepidGoose485

Hi guys. Long time lurker, first time poster

My Q and I have just split up. He relapsed towards the end of last year and has not gone back into recovery. I have tried to detach but also support him but he just pushes me further away.

I just feel so sad. And stupid for caring about somebody who cannot and will not put me first, despite me putting him first for a few years now.

I know I need to love myself and prioritise my peace over this relationship but it’s just so hard. What’s wrong with me? Do I care about myself so little???

I don’t really have a question, just left with such sadness and regret. I wish I had never met this man.