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She discarded me, almost immediately came back with false hope around talking and then never followed through and ghosted my last message. Since then she has recently upgraded all her social media profiles to a glamour selfie . It feels like a fuck you when I’ve been struggling now for 2 weeks. Why can’t I see her for what she is and always was. I can see all the red flags now which I ignored so why can’t I stop thinking about her, ruminating about her coming back and thinking of what she’s doing now with other guys or smearing me even more than she already has whilst we were in the relationship

This is destroying me from the inside whereas she clearly doesn’t give a fuck. All that love talk she gave me, non stop, over exaggerated … all lies

She discarded me about 9 days ago. Expected me to beg but I never did.

Seen bpd before and survived so kinda knew I was lined up to fail either way. Guess I’m just Lucky or stupid for ending up with another. You just don’t see it though til you are invested. Or at least overlook the flags.

I have her blocked but anticipated the glamour pose incoming on Facebook . I’m not disappointed .

There it is tonight. I can only see it in small fb thumbnail in chat due to the block .

the ‘I’m fine’after the cruel shitty way that I treated someone who actually gave a fuck about me

Desperate for male likes to boost that flagging and empty shell

They are so fucking predictable .even though they are so fucking all over the place

Whatever happens now I’m done. She proved who she was with the discard, she proved she wanted to play power games when I just said ‘ok I wish you well’ and she then asked to reconcile but never showed through.

Then she went on to ghost me for the last week but is able to post a photo of how life is great. I have a feeling this is all image management

She is dead to me now. I feel repulsed by her childish and quite frankly disgusting ways. Hope she tries hoovering. She will find I’m completely unreachable.

What a heartless bitch

We were together 6 months. She was the one that came after me. I wasn’t really that bothered at the start. She was quick to talk about love, moving in, marriage and all the rest.
Around 3 months in she told me after a minor quarrel it wasn’t working and she’d done. She came back 24 hrs later and apologised . Nothing changed after this, just got worse
She kept telling me about men who were interested in her, said her ex was desperate to get back together and that I should stay out of his way.
She was always over the top with her talk about how much she thought about me
‘ I am so lucky to have you and do life with you’
‘I’ve never felt love like this. I didn’t believe it was possible’
‘I love you more than anything that’s ever existed ‘
An argument 2 weeks ago about her acting sus with me and boom, she ended it a week ago. Quickly begged me to take her back, cancelled a talk we had planned and now has been missing for 4 days with not a single text.

I really can’t wrap my head around her words and how I can be the best thing that ever happened to her and go to being told she can’t handle the relationship anymore and that the reason is me and that I ruined it . She’s told all her friends and they agree I’m the bad guy.

I’m completely all over the place, my nervous system is a fucking train wreck

What has happened here. She was telling me how great I was right up until the end . She even told me in between ending it and then vanishing 4 days ago . Secretly hoping she reaches out and shows me I’m not so bad after all

Btw… I’m not reaching out. My nervous system may be on life support but I can still see that this will only give her great satisfaction