u/InternetLeast2168

Aio OR DID MY EX GAS LIGHT ME HARD

For behide everything my ex and I dated for 3 years I helped raise her daughter that was from a past relationship and I helped her with tough times and she helped me through stuff to like my depression and money problems

Since 3 months back we broke up because she pushed me to the point of breaking she kept saying I’m cheating when i wasn’t and saying my funds are hiding so they can get with me (my friends are all married ) but in those 3 months I still was around for the kid and we tried to “fix” everything still being romantic and still talking but few weeks ago now starting on March 28 my bday happened and my mom started a problem with me making things physically she hit me

I didn’t want to bring this up to my ex and I asked friends to hang out to get my mind of stuff because I knew they actually would and not make things about them

My ex was telling to hang out at her place with the way my mind was I didn’t want to go so I told her not and she started being aggressive and saying I’m going out with girls and immediately I flipped and told her off which I regret and I apologized later on but she wasn’t having it so we didn’t talk for days later on she was distracted and dry with me only asking for favours I did so but with lil emotion to it

We didn’t talk for a week again than she drop the bomb saying how I made us draft apart and she is telling me about this trip she is going to with her daughter yet a few months back I said I want to do a trip with my son only so me and him she flipped saying I’m not including her in my life I said sorry and apologized but now she is going to do the same thing and she moved on already when she said I would be the first too

And I’m now thinking of just texting her I can’t have contact with her anymore and how she is a hypocrite for gaslighting me when she did the same thing

I still love her but now I’m just hurting myself by having her around as a “friend”

So AIO

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u/InternetLeast2168 — 1 day ago