I am a 26yr female and I got out my last relationship about 3 yrs ago. I’m over him and looking for a partner. However, it feels like no matter what I do just nothing bares fruit.
I make 65k at a stable job and am applying to medical school. I am 5’8 , 150lb and workout regularly. I’m not a 10/10 but maybe at least a 5? (Idk doesn’t feel like that either at this point)
I go to cafes every week, to some bars maybe 2-3x a month. I like to go to events like once every few months like a wine fest or a concert. I love to dress cute in dresses or shirts even at work. Heels and sneakers are great and my sister helps me a ton with outfits and style since she was a design major.(she mostly likes dark academia, old money, and whimsical looks)
I have some hobbies with groups like embroidery, cars, and basketball. I’m have an outgoing personality and charismatic (popular in high school and college). I don’t sleep around and have a good community and friends. I really am happy over all and my cup is full of so many wonderful things, opportunity and people. However I am still looking for a partner. Ik I am young but idk if this kinda thing gets any better.
Also despite all this I have been asked on 1 date in the past 3yrs and was stood up (my dad blocked his number for me). And I have been asked for my number 3x and none have text me back.
At this point, I’m lost. Any advice to get a guy to even talk to me?