AITA For leaving an insecure person
So Im(16m) and I have joined and engineering coaching and it has been a nightmare for me as it puts my mental health on toll and I breakdown everyday So I had a old friend in my class and it was going good but then he said he wanted to join the much more advanced batch as he had much more friends so after a few weeks I did he introduced me to his friends (H) and (R) H was my friends best friend even tho they just met so one day I got to know that H was in the same bus as me and we sat together and became friends and I even joined the advanced batch with them but I felt left out of the grp they never talked to me in class and R only talked to me when no one was available to him si I moved back to my old class again and he called me that I crumbled under pressure and its not everyone's cup of tea to do that course so one of my bestfriends girlfriend who I was friends with she was like a sister to me so she asked me to sit with her on the first day on the bus and R got offended and started teasing me that she was my girlfriend so to defend myself I told him what she is to me but he kept teasing me so I badmouthed her saying she was a lil annoying and talkative maybe on multiple occasions but she had no problem with that cause I was like a little brother to her so we always joked around friends for like 3 yrs btw so one day I saw with her again and R got super offended creating a scene on the bus calling me a hypocrit for sitting with her and calling me selfish and characterless.I had always been a topper getting a 98 percent and he said that if I could get a 98 he could get a 100.. I felt offended when he called me hypocrit we got loud and 2 of his other friends I barely knew ganged up .. and they told me that they don't control my life so I decided to shift from my friend's girlfriend seat to theirs ( they didn't even let me sister with them for a few min) ok after that R said he would be the bigger person and say sorry I followed along and told its ok and he said I was disrespectful for saying that due to my tone and after a while him and his friend asked me if I was ok like was I going through smth like anxiety pressure or depression oh if that's not rude. His friend got off shook my hand and said that he was dissapointed in me after a while R told me I was a bad friend for not opening up.. I asked him if u wanna sort it out or should I put my earplugs on and he said dont show me this fake care and just went off the bus without saying anything
I know badmouthing my friend's gf for defending myself was wrong . And I apologized to her she said that I was a brother to her and that R guy was annoying.
AITA For doing this