hi folks really quick questions as i’m almost very close to liberation and being freed from the shackles of n.mother.

it’s been about 12 years of foolishness which stops in a month

guilt of leaving

i have to leave and i have to get gone and i really don’t have much guilt but it’s more fear of leaving and really cutting of the bitch who birthed me for good.

there’s no coming back from this and i fear i’m making a rash decision but i’ve really had enough

i want to go no contact for real and i’m gonna ditch the sim on my phone and change my number.

i would happily go no contact with her and act like she’s dead.

even when she dies, don’t contact me, contact the funeral home.

are there any ways to navigate this feeling and adjust to going no contact permanently, and i mean for ever

flying monkeys

this segways nicely into flying monkeys. now i don’t have any siblings or anyone who’s close to me and her.

but i know her wicked and evil family are going to blow up my phone guilt-tripping me and pestering me into explaining my actions.

do you guys think i should just block them as well?

the main crux of the problem is that this is a very permanent decision.

i’m essentially moving like i have zero family (even tho i’m not close to them anyways)

and the only parent i have left i’m treating as if she’s dead (she’s essentially dead to me anyways)

how do i navigate this whole thing and the permanent-ness of it all

thanks love u guys 😛

hi guys

quick question: so basically i’m in this semi corporate job and everyone uses teams (which i’m very familiar with) but my manager somehow insists on using whatsapp with me - to the point where i just continue the convo via teams

idk why.. because when i want to ask her something when i’m working from home it’s always on teams. NEVER by whatsapp

bare in mind she’s got my personal number, messaging me from her personal phone. she’ll ring me on whatsapp rather than teams, she’ll text me about work on whatsapp.

very strange

this is very much against company policy. i checked

has anyone else had this strange experience? we work for a v big company btw

hi folks

so long story short, i’m trying to move my stuff out of this bitches house in stealth mode and into my car (i’m gonna get a storage locker to transfer bits over before i move out to my actual place)

she doesn’t know that i’m planning to move out earliest next month or that i have a car or even that i have a drivers license

but she’s getting suspicious because stuff is leaving my room and she told me she wants to move out as well and keeps invading my room and going though my stuff

does anyone have any tips for moving stuff out in secret? she’s always at the house because she unemployed or something.

the last thing i was is for her to start asking questions and i can only use the charity excuse so many times

(all my car documents are in my car)

also do you guys know where i can put all my important documents like passport, insurance license, car documents rather than my car or my room. just incase she kicks me out one day and i have to high-tail it out of there before i officially move out