I 18F and BF 20M argue about mornings.
I 18 F and my boyfriend 20M have a current struggle. We are both in school, however he partially and the days he doesn't have school, he works at a job.
I have a conundrum, I am a morning person. Yes I get up at 6am naturally, he sleeps in till 10 easily and I have to force him to get up. Even then, he gets very grumpy and we/ he often ends up late because of it.
I am totally fine with not having him get up at six with me, but he puts on an alarm for 7, only to get up at 07.45(we have to leave for 08, as latest, depending on traffic)
Now, for weekends I'm fine with this, we dont sleep together everyday of course, but often enough that it has started to anger me, I have talked to him about it and explained that it's neither right to go to bed late and wake up late because of it nor leave me to be alone every morning. I've told him even 15 minutes to have some breakfast with me and spend a few quiet moments with me in the morning makes my day, but no. Now we have argued about it three times and I feel like he doesn't even try to see my side in this.
I'm not allowed to turn on any lights once I get up or pull his blanket of for him to wake up, so I get dressed in darkness and spend my morning hour alone. When we have argued he's told me that yes I would like him to wake up earlier to spend some time together, but he would like me to go to sleep later to spend time together. I told him, what makes more sense, ruin my sleep schedule to the same level as his is(he goes to bed EARLIEST 1am) or fix his sleep schedule to how it's supposed to be(i sleep about 11pm- 6am)
How do i get him to listen to me?