u/InternalPainting8769

My parents separated back in 2020, and since then, my sister and I have been on a 50/50 shared custody schedule. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how much the different environments in each house are affecting me, and I’m reaching the point where I think I want to spend more time at my dad’s.

I do love my mum, but the atmosphere at her house is constantly tense and stressful. She's very prone to anger, which makes me feel tense and at edge. My dads house is a much more stable, supportive environment where I can relax and be myself.

I'd really appreciate some advice on

How to bring it up?

What about my sister?

How to still have a good relationship with my mum?