If an older male in senior management regularly visits the work socials (on site) of young new employees, is this inappropriate? He says he just wants to get to know the new people, but I think it might be creepy. So far, there are no complaints. Wondering how to handle this situation.
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Hi everyone, I'm in my mid 50s and my husband is about a year older. We've been married 25 years and have 3 kids who are mostly grown up.
Our marriage has certainly had its ups and downs, and we've also dealt with some serious medical conditions with one of our children. But there's never been any infidelity (at least, not that I'm aware of.).
But my husband appears to be done with me sexually. And he doesn't necessarily want to talk about it, he's definitely an avoidant when it comes to discussing hard topics. I don't think this is an ED issue because he's been taking the little blue pill for over 10 years now, so that's nothing new for us.
For the last few years, until this year, I would say we've been having sex about once every 4 to 6 weeks. I realize that's not a lot, but at least it is something. Of course we had a lot more sex earlier in our marriage. But now we are at about zero.
Thoughts? Advice? I'm especially interested in hearing from ladies who've been married over two decades and raised a family together. Recently, I find myself fantasizing about what it would be like to have a new man who was sexually interested in me. I don't plan on acting on those thoughts, but I think it's a sign that I definitely want more than what I currently have.