u/Interesting-Tell3719

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How do you even find a gay cis partner if none of them like female parts??

I'm a t guy who really only crushes on full gay cis guys. Going on gay men r/'s doesn't help clear my thoughts either. Anytime a guy on there asks about being with a FTM partner, it's all hate comments calling him stupid, straight etc.

And I mean, obviously most cis gay guys are going to like men's genitals because they're gay. I used to want to get phallo, but the surgery looks *extremely* painful, and I don't know how I'd adjust to just to just having a butthole lmao... it hurts like hell just having a doctors finger up there and I don't think it'll feel good because...no prostate💔😭. And also I assume it's super expensive, alone with the recovery process. (If anyone has had it before and had the same thoughts as me I'd love to hear how It turned out for you!)

And I know that liking Male gentiles isn't all what makes you gay, but when it comes to tguys the only reason I see cis guys give is because of the lack of it.

But for anyone who has a cis male partner, how did you two come to be? Did they have to adjust, if so, was it difficult? The only reason I'd really get phallo is just so I can date because sometimes it feels like cis guys who like tguys don't exist (without a fetish for it), at least not in the internet or where I live. But to be fair, I am in the Deep South of the USA✌️

-Thank you all for the comments! I'm reading every single one!! Your relationship stories are so cute. I apologize for my usage of "female parts". Every other time I tried to post this it got flagged for using anatomical terms please forgive me I'm very sorry

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