Confusion and Concerns in an Arranged Marriage Proposal
I matched with a girl through a broker. She is from a village but currently lives in Bangalore and works as a contractor(now she left the job, but staying in Bangalore). During our first conversation, her family rejected me because I have less land. Later, they said they would proceed if I bought more land, so we agreed to do that.
After that, they made new demands—initially saying they would give 30 tolas of gold, then reducing it to 20, and later to 10. They keep changing their statements and are not communicating clearly. Her father does not speak directly with my father; instead, he communicates through the broker or through me.
Meanwhile, the girl and I have been talking daily. Our conversations have become somewhat romantic, and we have met in person and kissed on the cheeks a few times.
Am I being trapped in this situation?
Shall I cutoff all the connection with her and her family