Restaurant Waiter Incident
My friend 26 (f) masc-lesbian. She's short and on the tiny side, and has a fade . We were out dining at a restaurant one night, and it's important to note she had a drink or two. Our waitor was a young man, and was very polite and accidentally called her "sir" when addressing her. She corrected him, and though he owned up to his accident and apologized, she berated him and asked him if his pronouns were "she/her" and could she address him as a woman. He was very polite and kept saying "no ma'am." We tipped him generously, but we told my friend she was in the wrong because she was responding to him out of spite as opposed to a valid misunderstanding. She says we are in the wrong for saying she was rude for this because we don't get misgendered and don't have valid insight on the topic Is my friend in the wrong or are we in the wrong for calling out her behavior?