u/Individual_Fly_5146

Good morning fellow childfree legends,

I recently came across this Subreddit, and whilst it seems a bit US-heavy I thought it was worth a shot.

My name is Martin, and here are some quick facts about me 👫

* Recently turned 33 (does that make me mid-30s or still early??)
* Live in Scandinavia, recently returned to my homeland after 15 years away
* ENTP (personality type) and ADHD (undiagnosed but 100%)

Childfree When it comes to having children, I'm far from the fence. My personal conviction is that life is mostly overrated, society is crumbling, communities have long but died and empathy is getter rarer by the day. The world is incredibly cold, world economy is at best unstable.

I believe bringing a child into this world is nothing short of irresponsible and borderline child abuse, and I'm terrified my hypothetical children would experience the same loneliness, depression and emotional isolation as I have.

Lifestyle: I have a stable marketing career. I believe life is best lived with a glass of wine in one hand (and Dostojevskij in the other), and that moderate amounts of alcohol makes us people more relaxed, authentic and interesting. I enjoy travelling, and recently came back my 48th country ✈️

I'm what people would call 'a character', my ADHD leaves me unable to be filtered and I loathe the idea of a life of routine void of humour, originality and new experiences.

My bare-minimums in a partner 🤷

Real-life: I am not looking for a digital pen pal, or someone who lives chronically online. This is a waste of time, and waste of life.
Location: Europe is a must, the closer to Scandinavia you are the better
Politics & Activism: I'm tired of the political polarisation in society, and will not take part in it on either side. If you are a radical feminist, spend your free time taking part in protests, or are an ultra-conservative holier-than-thou religious person, we're not a match.

Appearance & energy: My future partner is feminine. I could give a dozen more aesthetic criteria, but they all go under the umbrella term of 'feminine'.
Ethnicity, hair / eye colour is 100% of no consequence. But as a short king 👑 she is probably below 1.70m.

She is not the jealous, insecure type. She is a good communicator, loyal and honest, an enthusiastic cuddler 🥄

She is not childfree due to some unresolved trauma, it's a well-thought through conclusion she has come to.

My future partner wants to enjoy the DINK life. Explore the world with me. She loves animals, and would like to have a dog or a cat.

As much as she doesn't want children herself she values family - and preferably has a stable, loving relationship to hers and at the very least will respect mine.

Interested in getting to know me more?
Slide into my DMs, with some basic information and photo of yourself 💃