u/Independent_Lynx715

My ex and I were walking together when some random guy shouted at us: “Chinese men have a small dick!”

It was shocking and really unpleasant. I felt angry, embarrassed, and protective all at once. We just kept walking and tried to ignore it, but it ruined the moment and left me feeling gross for the rest of the day.

For those of you in interracial relationships (especially involving Asian men or any combination where stereotypes get weaponized), how do you usually react in these situations?

Salut à tous,

Je vois souvent passer des commentaires assez négatifs sur Alten sur Reddit (et ailleurs aussi d’ailleurs), et je me demandais d’où ça venait concrètement.

C’est lié à des expériences perso ? À la culture ESN en général ? Au type de missions ? Au management ?

Je suis curieux d’avoir des retours concrets (positifs ou négatifs), histoire de comprendre si c’est juste un biais Reddit ou une vraie tendance terrain.

Merci !

Hey everyone,

I’d like your perspective on something.

There’s a guy I really don’t like who showed up to my birthday recently, acting completely normal like nothing ever happened.

A while ago, he made a comment to my ex along the lines of “are you serious, you’re dating a Chinese guy?”. I took that as pretty disrespectful and honestly racist, so I’ve kept my distance from him ever since.

But then he shows up to my birthday like we’re cool.

I didn’t confront him in the moment because I didn’t want to ruin the vibe for everyone, but it didn’t sit right with me at all.

For those of you in interracial relationships, how would you handle this kind of situation?

Would you ignore it, confront it, or set boundaries afterward?