If a Man Posted This, Everyone Would Lose Their Minds
At what point do people stop calling this “just dark humor” and start acknowledging how disturbing it is?
This is a mother of 3, a public creator, and a brand ambassador publicly commenting “My ex 💕” under a reel asking what you need to “kill” this year. Normally maybe people brush it off as edgy internet humor, except this isn’t happening in a vacuum. She is actively involved in an ongoing defamation lawsuit with the father of her 2-year-old child, a man she has repeatedly spoken about publicly.
When someone is already publicly accusing, shaming, litigating against, and monetizing conflict with their ex, comments like this stop reading as harmless jokes and start looking obsessive, hostile, and deeply inappropriate, especially with children involved.
And before anyone says “it’s obviously figurative,” yes, people understand the phrase. The issue is the pattern, the timing, and the public nature of it from someone who profits off an audience while presenting herself as a victimized, relatable mom creator.