I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, and I’m really happy we both communicate and call everyday, I wouldn’t want anything else. However last night I was straight up with him and said I can do long distance for a good while but if it got to the point of us being distance for over 4+ years I’d reach my breaking point. I explained that I wanted to live my life and experience things, having a partner so far away sucks especially since my #1 love language is physical touch. It feels like the relationship isn’t going anywhere, even though we are in good terms, but we never see eachother and it always has me think what is this all for? After some time you can only do so much with distance is in the way. I just have goals for my future especially since I’ll finish college soon, and if I had a relationship that was still long distance i feel like it’s holding me back. Now he’s upset/ really sad bc he claims my reasons are “stupid” My relationship prior to this lasted 2 years and was long distance as well, he broke up with me because of the distance and wasn’t willing to drop everything to be with me, which is understandable. So I guess it’s kinda how I feel now too?
Idk.,. I don’t know I feel anymore, I just don’t wanna have a long distance relationship and grow and try to work it out with a person just for it to still not work cause distances a B