Found out my wife cheated on me before we got married.
Found out my wife(42 F)cheated on me(m 45)before we got married with my best friend. I always had this gut feeling that my wife was lying to me. It started out when years ago a rumour was going around something happened between my gf, now wife, and my best friend . I let it go after asking her what happened and she said nothing did. Years later got married and had kids. But something wasn’t right. I message my friend and he said and asked him what happened that night. He said “ I wouldn’t do that to you”. My wife got drunk one evening and went to bed. I went through her phone and found messages from my friend and her. She said she didn’t want me to know and I was sick in the head and needs help. As it turns out I was right. My wife and friend were with each other at my birthday party. Then after when we got home I pasted out and they got with each other. As it turns out, this wasn’t her first time she had done this before we got married. She had been sleeping with her ex before we moved into our house. She had a threesome with a married couple but told me nothing happened. When I confronted her about it, she lied and lied. Then told some of the truth. Then it finally came out. She said she has been faithful. She had lunch with guys( at least two guys, said it was work) and told me she was having lunch with her sister. Why would she need to lie? We have kids and been married but it feels like I don’t know her and she will lie in the future. Even though she said she won’t. What would you do?