u/Impossible_One2044

Fake friends and accusations

I really don't know what to do. This girl who was in my main friend group who I'll call A has been kinda on and off distance this year. But I didn't want to take it personally especially sense I know she's had mental health struggle but it kinda upset me but I never said anything. Recently was prom and the vibe was just off and I was already getting the feeling that she kinda didn't like me anymore but I'm a pretty energetic person so people either really like me or find me annoying so I wasn't too surprised. But she doesn't come back to my friends house like we planned after the party everything. Well today the friends who house we went to says the she's been talking bad about me and everything and asks to pick me up to talk about it and I'm a bit upset but I assume it's just talking about how annoying I am or that I talk to much (cause I talk a lot). But she picks me up and it's a bit complaining about that but apparently she told her and another one of my friends I SA'd her in middle school!!!! I don't even know why she would say that like she has a small lying problem like if she doesn't want to go to something she lies, if she was wrong about a store something was in she might lie that kind of thing but this is on a whole new level!!! I kinda feel like she said that because she knows I was SA'd by my cousin when I was younger (around 5 and 13) and I think that just think that makes it hurt more. She also said she hang out with me cause her mom won't let her because I SA'd her but I've literally had conversations with her mom and we've taken dance pictures and stuff with her mom in the same room and we barely hung out in middleschool, like we shared a lunch table and took pictures together when we saw each other at a dance and that's it!!! And I just don't know it really hurts because it could be literally anything else but this and I probably wouldn't really care but this just hurts.... my friend who told made me promise not to say anything because she wasn't supposed to tell. What should I do? I don't know I might take this down I'm just really upset.

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u/Impossible_One2044 — 1 day ago