u/Impossible_Mine3293

Why do they erase us specifically?

Perhaps this has been asked before, but I'm wondering why would avoidants erase only us or specific people but not their other previous partners? My avoidant seems to have returned to social media and while I have not and will not reach out i couldnt help but peek at his activity to see if he is doing well. I still care for him despite the discard...but he seems to have omitted me completely from his history noting that he hasnt had a relationship since 2024. Why would he/avoidants in general omit certain relationships/partners while keeping others in their history? Would it be simply because i was his most recent?

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u/Impossible_Mine3293 — 21 hours ago