u/Impossible_Ebb_8401

I am being absolutely worn down over my roommate. She’s lived here since June and moves out at the end of this month. Here is a list of things she’s done that I need to get off my chest:

-Neglects her cat, doesn’t clean his litter box for weeks at a time

-Her room is full of trash and food alongside all the cat feces and urine

-She overall has bad hygiene, doesn’t own soap or toothpaste and smells very strongly of weed and mildew

-Has never once cleaned the apartment

-leaves shit streaked underwear in the bathroom

-leaves vomit and feces on the toilet seat

-uses my food regularly

-keeps my dishes in her room

-frequently leaves weed residue on my chairs, table and the counters

-smokes inside the apartment

-goes into my room without me there

-uses my USED washcloths

-leaves rotting food outside and in fridge

-missed rent payments

-ruined my couch, chairs, table and towels

-leaves dye and food stains on furniture

-has lied to me on numerous occasions about very silly things. She’s definitely a story teller of sorts.

I am just here ranting. It’s been a long time coming. I cannot wait to come into my own home and not smell feces, urine, body odor and weed. I am so excited to live with a real adult and not a 20 year old toddler who can’t figure out how to clean up after herself. I will give it to her that she is overall a sweet girl but she’s got some serious issues and needs to mature and have a supportive environment aside from me.

For context, me and my roommate (both 20sF) have lived together for around 8 months and she is planning on moving out within the next month. Since she’s been here, a few pieces of my furniture have been trashed. I’m mostly unconcerned with the damage, except for my couch. I spent a good amount on a pretty new couch which now is covered in food stains from her, and has a gaping hole in it from her cat tearing it up.
The cat rips it up every time she goes outside or in her room without him and she never stops him.
I asked her to find a way to make him stop or get a cover when she moved in but obviously that never happened.
Is it rude to ask her to help pay for the repair?
I’m honestly really upset because most of my furniture and stuff was really well kept before her and now it’s all stained and ruined.