Sorry if this the wrong place to ask this, if theres a better sub please point me there.
Hello i want to start this off by saying that I'm pretty new to the Kink/BDSM scene. I've known of it for several years but only started looking into it in the last year, and highly interested in doing some kinks and scene someday.
But I've had some concerns that I've had trouble finding answers to so I thought I'd ask yall. For starters I have a Handful of disabilities and disorders that im afraid would affect a scene, my main concerns are with ADHD & Tourette. Especially with Tourette, i think it would make things difficult. I'm afraid that if I'm bound and have a Tic I could hurt myself.
So my question is how should I work around or with these Disorders & Disabilities? How do yall work through your own Disorders & Disabilities in a Kink/BDSM Scene?
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Another concern I have is that I've had family & ex-friends try to "correct" my behavior before. I'm afraid that if i do find a Dom/Partner to practice with they might try to correct my behavior like my family and ex-friends tried before.
So my next question is, how can I weed out a Dom/Partner that would try to correct my ADHD or Tourettes? What are some ways I can protect myself from a bad or non-understanding Dom/Partner?