Should i ask him if he is mad at me? i don't want that to be my first question i just want suggestions how to ask. Im planning to ask him if he is alright cause yesterdayhe seemed off is he busy, is it work, family, is he unhappy at someone, mad at someone, is it me? but my tone is not to accuse him of being mad at me but just in a playful tone wanting to know whats been bothering him.
The passed 3-5 days he has been abit off. But before that for a long time he has been more talkative. He might be busy with work and stuff and also trying to prep for this big race he's been looking foreward to but thats in a few months. But usually when i see him at this one run club he seems to be abit avoidant and not as talkative even when sometimes he would ask if i was going to that club. but tbh he didnt really talk to anyone yesterday and was just having some space away. but when i just asked him about his run ( he chose a different one from me this time). but he just nodded and say a few words and did not even look at me. I said bye and he just said see ya.
Why he might be mad:
I remember him asking if i was going to a run event but i said no because i had work. then i was able to get it covered cause i had something else on so i went to the event too. i told my female friend that i was coming but not him because i felt like it could be a surprise and not that big of a deal cause its just like a last day decision and i'll see him there anyways and tell him. then he saw me after and was like i didnt even know you were coming but i explained. he seemed alright then but wasnt as talkative when we are around others because it's in that same run club. but he seemed fine cause we were still sending reels after. But yesterday he was abit off and isolated. Also a few days before these two guys came up to talk to me slighltly flirty while we were at a run club but he was talking to other friends anyways and he would talk to another friend who is a girl like that too.
i tried talking to him but he just seemed not energetic at all. but another run club he is fine or when he comes with me one on one he is good like would always ask me if i will be running near my house like a park run and he would come and sit with me for a coffee for an hour then would ask if I'm going to the next thing (like when i'll see him next) then he said he would love to stay longer but should go now cause its over 1hr.
usually today at this run club he usually is fine at but he would try to go home with me or do the same run. He even takes pics of me like a selfie while i didnt notice and posts it and candid pics. I just know theres so many things i cant tell on here but i def know he likes me cause he complimented me in a bikini at the beach, asks if im going to places, we talk about personal stuff. but he's very talkative when we are alone. He liked my stories and stories of me and tried to talk and see me. even sent me reels once in a while and said goodnight. I knew he liked me even since mid last year. But the passed few months have been more obvious but just 5 days seemed like he is distant