u/Impossible-Olive2274

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwentiesIndia/comments/1sivizq/first_date_tomorrow_and_im_lowkey_freaking_out/

its going to be a bit long but im sorry read it if you have time

We were in a relationship —never met in person, but we were real. We broke up, but she came back saying she misses me, wants to be friends, maybe more "if things go well." So when she invited that possibility back in, I decided to show up. Actually show up.We have been talking of meeting each other and on call she was genuinly so excited , told me she will show around every part of her campus , then we'll go there , we'll have auto she'll bargain for me it felt so cute that i actually showed up . She said come on sunday

I traveled 60km. I woke up without eating. I handpicked a bouquet of sunflowers for her. The whole journey I was messaging her, asking if she's ready —she couldn't believe I was actually coming. That should've told me something, but I kept going because I meant it.

When I arrived near her hostel, she went cold. Started replying late. Asked me to "send a picture fast" like she thought I was bluffing. I sent one of the canteen right outside her hostel. She said she's also there and can't see me obvious lie. Then a while later: "I saw you. I don't think that im ready to meet you . I'm sorry. You can go back." After that i started convincing her to which she replied "I dont think you are my type, we are different person idk what shit who says that im literally 800 m away from her hostel 😭😭

I asked her to just come down, sit with me, eat something. I hadn't eaten all day atleast friends can eat together She said no. Then she said we can't even be friends anymore cause she loves me?😭😭

Here's the thing : I asked her what colour shirt I was wearing. She couldn't answer. She never came to the window. She never saw me. She lied about that too.

I'm standing outside with sunflowers I picked myself, hungry, 60km from home, and she's telling me I'm not her type when she didnt even seee me bruh

current update : she said she tried but it was very overwhelming for her to come and see me irl idk man please help me what to do

https://www.reddit.com/r/PakistaniiConfessions/comments/1sivllc/title_first_date_tomorrow_and_im_lowkey_freaking/

its going to be a bit long but im sorry read it if you have time

We were in a relationship —never met in person, but we were real. We broke up, but she came back saying she misses me, wants to be friends, maybe more "if things go well." So when she invited that possibility back in, I decided to show up. Actually show up.We have been talking of meeting each other and on call she was genuinly so excited , told me she will show around every part of her campus , then we'll go there , we'll have auto she'll bargain for me it felt so cute that i actually showed up . She said come on sunday

I traveled 60km. I woke up without eating. I handpicked a bouquet of sunflowers for her. The whole journey I was messaging her, asking if she's ready —she couldn't believe I was actually coming. That should've told me something, but I kept going because I meant it.

When I arrived near her hostel, she went cold. Started replying late. Asked me to "send a picture fast" like she thought I was bluffing. I sent one of the canteen right outside her hostel. She said she's also there and can't see me obvious lie. Then a while later: "I saw you. I don't think that im ready to meet you . I'm sorry. You can go back." After that i started convincing her to which she replied "I dont think you are my type, we are different person idk what shit who says that im literally 800 m away from her hostel 😭😭

I asked her to just come down, sit with me, eat something. I hadn't eaten all day atleast friends can eat together She said no. Then she said we can't even be friends anymore cause she loves me?😭😭

Here's the thing : I asked her what colour shirt I was wearing. She couldn't answer. She never came to the window. She never saw me. She lied about that too.

I'm standing outside with sunflowers I picked myself, hungry, 60km from home, and she's telling me I'm not her type when she didnt even seee me bruh

current update : she said she tried but it was very overwhelming for her to come and see me irl idk man please help me what to do

So I’m going on a first date tomorrow and I honestly don’t know what to expect. I’ve been in relationships before but weirdly I’ve never actually gone on a proper “first date” like this.

I’ll be going to meet her. She asked me to come to her college first, she’ll show me around her campus, and then we’re planning to go to some cafe and then park.

Now the thing is… I’m very nervous.

She’s genuinely very beautiful. Like way out of my league type beautiful. I’m not saying I look bad — I’ve got a good face card, good height, overall I know I’m not unattractive — but I do have some acne scarring on my face. It’s not bad, but it’s there, and in my head it feels like it lowers my “potential” a lot.

And now I can’t stop overthinking:

• What if she doesn’t like me when she sees me in person?
• What if she acts awkward after noticing my face?
• What if I become awkward because I think she’s noticing it?

I really like this girl, which is probably why I’m overthinking everything so much.

And generally… what should I do on a first date to not mess it up?

Appreciate any advice 🙏

So I’m going on a first date tomorrow and I honestly don’t know what to expect. I’ve been in relationships before but weirdly I’ve never actually gone on a proper “first date” like this.

I’ll be going to Delhi to meet her. She asked me to come to her college first, she’ll show me around her campus, and then we’re planning to go to Greater Kailash after that.

Now the thing is… I’m very nervous.

She’s genuinely very beautiful. Like way out of my league type beautiful. I’m not saying I look bad I’ve got a good face card, good height, overall I know I’m not unattractive but I do have some acne scarring on my face. It’s not bad, but it’s there, and in my head it feels like it lowers my “potential” a lot.

And now I can’t stop overthinking:

• What if she doesn’t like me when she sees me in person?
• What if she acts awkward after noticing my face?
• What if I become awkward because I think she’s noticing it?

I really like this girl, which is probably why I’m overthinking everything so much.

Also, if anyone here is from Delhi any tips for Greater Kailash? Good spots, what to do, how to not make it boring, etc. would really help.

And generally… what should I do on a first date to not mess it up?

Appreciate any advice 🙏