My best friend (30 F), let's call her Laura, and I (31 F) have been best friends for around 25 years. For a stint of this 25 year friendship, we didn't talk very much but over the past three years, we have become very close again.
Around 6 months ago, I received a call from her stating that she was pregnant. She had been seeing this guy for three weeks and got pregnant right away. I'm definitely not judging her on this, its just the way things happened. After this, his job in our state ended and he went back to the state where he is from, half way across the country, but they were still together and he was looking for other jobs in our area. Tragically, she had a miscaraige after a couple of weeks.
A couple of months after this, she let me know that she was moving to be with him. It was a bummer to hear, but overall, I was really happy for her.
After she moved, we basically stopped talking. We went from talking 1-2 times a week and now, over the past three months, we have spoken twice. Recently, I went on FB and saw that she has gotten engaged. Shortly after that, I was the they are expecting but I haven't received a call, text, nothing from her... So I haven't said anything either.
I feel like I sound super self involved here but it hurts my feelings that she has basically left me out of the loop.
I think I'm answering my own question here but should I get over myself and reach out to her?